capable, motivation, attitude
Happiness doesn't depend on any external conditions, it is governed by our mental attitude.
You may not be able to change a situation, but with humor you can change your attitude about it.
So long as you've got your friends about you, and a good positive attitude, you don't really have to care what everyone else thinks.
The meaning of things lies not in the things themselves, but in our attitude towards them.
When you are thwarted, it is your own attitude that is out of order.
your own attitude, order, thwarted