If it's true that our species is alone in the universe, then I'd have to say the universe aimed rather low and settled for very little.
I finally faced the fact that it isn't a crime not having friends. Being alone means you have fewer problems.
Yes, I guess you could say I am a loner, but I feel more lonely in a crowed room with boring people than I feel on my own.
The capacity for not feeling lonely can carry a very real price, that of feeling nothing at all.
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