Forgive yourself, faults, move on
You will know that forgiveness has begun when you recall those who hurt you and feel the power to wish them well.
I think the first step is to understand that forgiveness does not exonerate the perpetrator. Forgiveness liberates the victim. It's a gift you give yourself.
FORGIVENESS, FORGIVENESS LIBERATES THE VICTIM
Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit.
FORGIVENESS, LOVE IS AN ACT OF ENDLESS FORGIVENESS